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Actor Explores Fatherhood and Identity in New Film

Jordan Firstman’s debut film, 'Club Kid,' explores the complexities of parenthood and self-discovery through the story of a party promoter who unexpectedly becomes a father.

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San Francisco · November 15, 2026
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Jordan Firstman, an actor and filmmaker, made his feature directing debut with 'Club Kid,' a film that follows a gay New York party promoter who becomes the unexpected father of a 10-year-old boy (Reggie Absolom) (source ID: 1). The film's protagonist, Peter, grapples with the challenges of parenting while balancing his lifestyle centered around partying, clubs, and drug use. Firstman developed the idea for the film after attending a dinner party where he interacted with an 8-year-old child, which prompted him to reflect on his own life and the complexities of growing up (source ID: 1). [1]

In 'Club Kid,' Peter initially resists the responsibilities of fatherhood but gradually grows to embrace them as he learns about his son Arlo’s unique talents, particularly his DJ skills. Firstman was inspired by several films, including Kramer vs. Kramer and Paper Moon, which explore themes of parenting and unconventional relationships between adults and children (source ID: 1). The film's narrative is further shaped by the real-life experiences of Reggie Absolom, who plays Arlo and brings authenticity to the role (source ID: 1). [1]

The film features a pivotal scene in which Arlo is allowed to DJ at one of Peter’s club events, a decision that reflects both the film’s exploration of unconventional parenting and the integration of Arlo into Peter’s world. Firstman emphasized the importance of creating a safe and positive environment for Absolom during filming, ensuring that the experience was both educational and enjoyable for the young actor (source ID: 1). The film ultimately presents a dynamic where Peter and Arlo influence each other, with Arlo teaching Peter how to grow up and Peter teaching Arlo how to enjoy life (source ID: 1). [1]

Jordan Firstman, an actor and filmmaker, made his feature directing debut with 'Club Kid,' a film that follows a gay New York party promoter who becomes the unexpected father of a 10-year-old boy (Reggie Absolom) (source ID: 1). The film's narrative centers on Peter, a character who initially resists the responsibilities of fatherhood but gradually embraces them as he learns about his son Arlo’s unique talents, particularly his DJ skills. Firstman's inspiration for the film came after attending a dinner party where an 8-year-old child was present, prompting him to reflect on his own relationship with adulthood and responsibility. [1]

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The film features a pivotal scene in which Arlo is allowed to DJ at one of Peter’s club events, a decision that reflects both the film’s exploration of unconventional parenting and the integration of Arlo into Peter’s world (source ID: 1). This scene was designed to create a positive and safe environment for Reggie Absolom, who actually DJed during the filming, with his costars and extras dancing to his tunes. Firstman emphasized the importance of creating an atmosphere where Arlo could express himself creatively and feel a sense of belonging. [1]

Firstman cites several films as influences on 'Club Kid,' including Kramer vs. Kramer, Gloria, Ordinary People, and Paper Moon. He describes the relationship between Peter and Arlo as one where they both teach each other, with Arlo helping Peter grow into an adult and Peter teaching Arlo how to find joy and creativity (source ID: 1). The film highlights the complexities of their unconventional father-son dynamic, as both characters navigate their own challenges and learn from each other in unexpected ways. [1]

Jordan Firstman, an actor and filmmaker, made his feature directing debut with 'Club Kid,' a film that follows a gay New York party promoter who becomes the unexpected father of a 10-year-old boy (Reggie Absolom) (source ID: 1). The film centers on Peter, who initially resists the responsibilities of fatherhood but gradually grows to embrace them as he learns about his son Arlo’s unique talents, particularly his DJ skills. This dynamic is a core theme of the film, reflecting the challenges of integrating a child into a lifestyle centered around partying, clubs, and nightlife (source ID: 1). [1]

Firstman cites several films as influences on 'Club Kid,' including Kramer vs. Kramer, Gloria, Ordinary People, and Paper Moon, all of which explore themes of parenting and family dynamics (source ID: 1). The film’s narrative is shaped by Firstman’s own reflections on growing up and the pressures of responsibility, which he explored during the creative process. His experiences at a dinner party where an 8-year-old was present and his own life in Berlin influenced the genesis of the film’s concept (source ID: 1). [1]

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In 'Club Kid,' the integration of Arlo into Peter’s world is depicted through a pivotal scene where Arlo is allowed to DJ at one of Peter’s club events. This decision reflects the film’s exploration of unconventional parenting and the merging of Arlo’s talents with Peter’s lifestyle. The scene was filmed with real DJ equipment, and Reggie Absolom actually performed, creating an authentic experience for the young actor (source ID: 1). [1]

Jordan Firstman, an actor and filmmaker, made his feature directing debut with 'Club Kid,' a film that follows a gay New York party promoter who becomes the unexpected father of a 10-year-old boy (Reggie Absolom) (source ID: 1). The film’s narrative centers on Peter, who initially resists the responsibilities of fatherhood but gradually grows to embrace them as he learns about his son Arlo’s unique talents, particularly his DJ skills. The story explores the complexities of unconventional parenting and the challenges of integrating Arlo into Peter’s world, which revolves around partying, clubs, and taking and selling drugs (source ID: 1). [1]

Firstman was inspired by various films, including Kramer vs. Kramer, Gloria, Ordinary People, After Hours, Uptown Girls, and I Am Sam, which influenced his approach to storytelling in 'Club Kid' (source ID: 1). The idea for the film came after Firstman attended a dinner party where an 8-year-old child was present, prompting him to reflect on his own life and the concept of growing up. He felt a connection with the child, which led him to explore themes of responsibility and self-discovery through the lens of parenting (source ID: 1). [1]

In 'Club Kid,' the integration of Arlo into Peter’s world is depicted through a pivotal scene where Arlo is allowed to DJ at one of Peter’s club events. This scene reflects the film’s exploration of unconventional parenting and the idea of allowing the child to express himself creatively within Peter’s environment. Firstman wanted to ensure that the young actor, Reggie Absolom, felt safe and supported during this experience, which he described as the best first experience of the club that someone can really have (source ID: 1). [1]

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